Sunday, June 11, 2023

“Hello In There” (Matthew 9:9-13, 18-26)

A tax collector.

A synagogue leader with a dying daughter.

 

A chronically ill woman.

 

What do these three people have in common within this story?  They are all people considered on the outside looking in . . . people of the shadows.  They are not the main players in the story.  They are not the mainstream of society.  In fact, they are those who were ostracized, pushed away, ignored, and barely tolerated.  They were the outsiders of society who were often seen as disposable. 

 

The tax collector . . . say no more.  These individuals were seen as traitors of their own people working for the enemy who profited off the backs of their own.  The leader of the synagogue . . . not a popular person among the followers of Jesus as they were often in opposition to Jesus, his teachings, and his ministry.  The chronically ill women who had been suffering bleeding for twelve years . . . she was all hands off . . . considered dirty . . . untouchable.  None of them were like the rest of the people.  They were untouchables . . . outsiders . . . forgotten people who lingered on the fringes of society . . . who lived in the shadows.

 

And what in the world was Jesus doing associating with them!  Inviting them to join in the party.  Healing them. Getting down and dirty with them.  What was Jesus thinking!  Well, at least for the people of Jesus’ time, that was what they were thinking . . . who is this guy and why is he associating with those sorts of people?

 

I suppose that is the gift of 20/20 hindsight.  As we hear this story today we can look back with years and years of study and recognize that this is who Jesus was and is.  We are not there witnessing and experiencing this first-hand . . . no, we are witnessing and experiencing it through many different lenses over the span of many, many years and generations of the faithful.  This is who Jesus is . . . his was a ministry to those others would rather forget and ignore.  Jesus’ ministry was to “the least of these”.

 

For those at the time of Jesus, these outsiders were as good as dead in their eyes.  For Jesus there was still life . . . still purpose . . . still value.  And he invited them to fully embrace the life that God offered . . . to come and take their place in God’s family . . . to claim their place at the table.

 

One of my all-time favorite movies is The Princess Bride . . . the story of Wesley and Buttercup’s undying love for one another.  If you have never seen the movie, you should . . . It is a wonderful story for the whole family.  In the movie Wesley is captured and tortured to death by the movie’s protagonist, Prince Humperdinck before he is rescued by his two traveling companions who take him to Miracle Max, the village’s holy medicine person.  Presenting Wesley’s body to Miracle Max they are sad because they are certain he is dead.  Max bends down, puts his ear down to the face of Wesley, and listens . . . Nope!  He’s mostly dead, declares Max.

 

Miracle Max explains that there is still hope that he can be brought back to full life since he is not yet dead all the way . . . you know, he’s mostly dead.  So, he goes to work on reviving Wesley back to life . . . which according to Miracle Max hinges on whether Wesley has something to live for.  Which, of course, if you know the story, he does . . . true love.  Miracle Max proclaims: “Sonny, true love is the greatest things in the world . . .”

 

“True love is the greatest thing in the world.”  Would any of us disagree?  Is that not the foundation of Jesus’s words, miracles, teachings, and ministry . . . love?  Isn’t everything Jesus does grounded in love?  Did he not tell his disciples and us that the greatest commandment was to love . . . to love God wholly and to love one another?  That love that Jesus was doling out and asking his followers to dole out was not for select people, it was for all people . . . all of God’s creation . . . for all of God’s children.  Even those that everyone considered to be outsiders . . . tax collectors, the powerful, the disabled . . . those considered “sinners”.  Everyone was included.

 

Why?  Because true love is a powerful thing . . . a powerful thing that can change the world.  When one is valued, respected, cared for, wanted . . . it changes life, it changes the world.  It changes it for the better.  That is what Jesus preached.  It is what Jesus lived.

 

One of my favorite singer/song writers is John Prine.  He wrote songs that were thoughtful, thought-provoking, and often humorous.  One of the first songs that he ever wrote was a song about an elderly couple called Hello in There. It is a song about being “forgotten”.  As the couple grew older, family moved away, retirement came and those relationships were lost, friends die, neighbors change and as old people they slowly began to fade away.  It talked about the loneliness of growing old . . . of being forgotten and fading into the shadows of the world they once thrived in.

 

As each verse of the song paints the picture of this transition in life it is pierced by the chorus—a chorus expressing a longing to be remembered and to belong:

 

You know that old trees just grow stronger

And old rivers grow wilder every day

Old people just grow lonesome

Waiting for someone to say, "Hello in there, hello"

 

 

This song speaks to something we all feel . . . something that we have all experienced . . . that feeling of being left out, or being forgotten, of fading into the shadows.  We can identify with the song because it is a fundamental part of who we are . . . we want to be loved, desired, remembered, and included.  We want to be acknowledged because we are not dead yet . . . no, we might be mostly dead but we want to be counted among the living.

 

Is that not the desire of all of us?  Why would it not be among those who are considered outsiders . . . those who are on the fringes . . . those who linger in the shadows . . . looking in and wishing that someone—anyone—would acknowledge them.  Jesus recognized this in the people he encountered, particularly those that others deemed unworthy.  Jesus lived and ministered to the “least of these”.

 

And that is his challenge to his followers.  He challenges his followers to open their vision . . . to look around the world in which they live . . . and to acknowledge the presence of others—especially those on the outside looking in—and to invite them in.  To care.  To love.

 

John Prine’s closing to the song, Hello in There, is such an invitation to those who listen to the song:

 

You know that old trees just grow stronger

And old rivers grow wilder every day

Old people just grow lonesome

Waiting for someone to say, "Hello in there, hello"

So if you're walking down the street sometime

And spot some hollow ancient eyes

Please don't just pass 'em by and stare

As if you didn't care, say, "Hello in there, hello"

 

 

 

To be loved.  To be acknowledged.  To be wanted and desired.  To be thought of . . . to be cared for . . . to count and belong.  We all want this in our own lives.  None of us wants to be left out or to be forgotten.  And Jesus doesn’t want that either.  So let us embrace the invitation to open our eyes and hearts to the world around us.  Let us stop and say, “Hello in there.”  Let us begin to acknowledge others as we acknowledge ourselves worthy of love . . . love of God and love of others.  There is nothing more powerful than love.  It changes us and the world we live in . . . in fact, it is the only thing that ever has.

 

Let us believe . . . it changed the lives of those we learned about this morning in our reading.  As Jesus told the woman who touched him seeking blessing: Take heart . . . your faith has healed you.  It will make a difference.  Amen.


 

Sunday, June 4, 2023

"Holy Trifecta" (II Corinthians 13:11-13)

If you are familiar with horse racing, then you are familiar with the word “trifecta”.  Trifecta is a fairly recent addition to the English language.  It first appeared in the early 1970s as a term for a horse-racing bet in which first, second, and third place finishers are chosen in the correct order.  In other words, you are placing a wager on who you think the first three finishers will be and in what order.  Get them right and you get a pretty good payoff for your bet.  It is easier said than done.

 

I am lousy at gambling.  Once a year, at the most, I might purchase a lottery ticket when the prize is over a trillion dollars and the odds are billion-to-one.  I think of it as my contribution to the state.  Gambling is not my forte.  It is a game of luck.  I don’t have much luck.

 

As you know, Dana—my wife, is a native of Kentucky which is known for its thoroughbred horses and horse racing.  When we were dating, she decided to take me to the Keeneland Racetrack to experience horse racing at its best . . . to give me the true Kentucky experience.  Well, as in Rome do as the Romans do.  So, we decided to place bets on several of the races.  I wanted to look at a racing form to see how the horses stacked up before placing a wager; Dana, well she looked at the colors the jockeys were wearing, looked for the colors she liked, and decided that was the horse she would wager on.  Since I didn’t understand the racing forum and she bet on a whim, neither of us walked away with any winnings.  As I said, gambling is luck and luck is not something I have been abundantly blessed with.

 

Which brings me back to that word . . . “trifecta”.  Like a lot of words in the English language it has several meetings . . . it has a broader meaning.  Now it can also refer to a group of three things.  In our brief scripture reading, the Apostle Paul’s final greeting to the church in Corinth, he admonishes and challenges the congregation to a trifecta . . . a holy order of three things.  He tells them to strive towards becoming what God desires for them to become . . . the Kingdom of God.  And, to do this, he tells them there are “three” things they should do: “. . . encourage one another, be of one mind, live in peace.”  

 

If you do this, says the apostle, you will succeed.  Or as he says it: “And the God of love and peace will be with you.”  Paul is betting on a holy trifecta!

 

So should we.

 

“. . . encourage one another, be of one mind, live in peace.”  What is not to love about the three challenges that the apostle puts upon those—and ultimately us, too—in Corinth?  Encouragement.  Like-mindedness. And peace?  Paul tells us that if we can get the hang of these three, we can discover that God is with us.  Who doesn’t want that?

 

“. . . encourage one another . . .”  A little encouragement goes a long way.  Author and psychiatrist M. Scott Peck says that “life is difficult” and it is.  None of us is going to argue that it is not.  We all have our hard days . . . our difficult days . . . our down in the dump days.  A few kind words of encouragement, a supportive statement, a few cheers here and there can make a difference when we are having those sorts of days.  It makes us feel better . . . better about ourselves and our situations . . . better because someone cares.  It reminds us that we are not alone.

 

Paul wants those who follow Jesus to encourage one another.  To be supportive.  To be caring.  To be loving.  But most of all to be that presence that lets others know that they are not alone in life or its struggle.  Knowing that someone is behind us . . . encouraging us and cheering us on . . . can make a difference.  A big difference.

 

“. . . be of one mind . . .”  In this the apostle is not calling us to all think alike.  No, he never said that as he acknowledges with the Corinthian church that there is more than one way of thinking about faith that brings people together as the children of God.  Which makes sense, none of our faith stories are alike because none of us is alike.  Instead, what the apostle is calling for when it comes to “being of one mind”, is that the purpose—the goal—is the same.  In this case establishing the Kingdom of God as Jesus taught . . . through love.  Love of God.  Love of one another.  Of “being of one mind” towards this common purpose or goal.  And of this we should agree . . . God calls us to love, and our lives should be grounded in that love.

 

Which brings us to “. . . live in peace . . .”  Peace is a big word.  There are probably as many understandings of that word as there are people in this sanctuary.  We all have our own idea of what “peace” means and is.  But I warn you . . . peace is not the absence of disagreement or conflict.  Disagreement and conflict are a natural part of human nature.  It is there in the debate of disagreement and conflict that peace can be discovered as people sit down and talk.  Talk about differences.  Talk about feelings.  Talk about hopes and dreams.  Talk about what could be.  It is in the love and respect that allows us to sit down and be in relationship with one another . . . of learning to understand one another that peace begins.  It is the willingness to sit down and work with one another towards achieving that purpose and goal.  It is reconciliation . . . being able to accept and live with one another.

 

Paul is placing his money on this “holy trifecta”.  He is betting that it can be accomplished.  In doing this there will be “full restoration”.  The kingdom will come.  It will be as God desires it to be . . . or, as the apostle states: “And the God of love and peace will be with you.”

 

As the apostle encourages the congregation in Corinth to place a bet on this “holy trifecta” . . . to go for broke while shooting for the moon, so do I.  I encourage you to go ahead and wager on this “holy trifecta” of encouragement, like-mindedness, and peace.  Whether you win or lose, it is up to you.  You can’t do either if you never place the bet.

 

I remind you of that old joke about the man who kept praying to God to win the lottery as the prize escalated in the into the millions . . . how he promised God that he would change his life, dedicate his son to the priesthood, anything, and everything if God would help him win the lottery.  After finding no support from God, the man sits crying and praying to God about how God had failed him.  Then there is a rumbling voice that shakes the sanctuary saying: “This is God.  You’ve got to help me with this one . . . buy a ticket!”

 

God believes in us.  God is betting on us.  Let us do our part.  Let us buy a ticket.  Let us believe in ourselves.  Amen.